The question of whether using a blowjob sex doll is shameful is one that every adult must answer for themselves. Research indicates that the primary motivation for adults using sex toys is to derive pleasure, rather than to compensate for some perceived “deficiency”—indeed, nearly half of all adults report “always or almost always” using sex toys during masturbation. With hundreds of millions of people using sex-tech products in various ways, what we truly need is to re-examine the concept of “shame” itself. What is truly shameful is not the pursuit of pleasure within reasonable bounds, but the judgmental gaze that applies double standards to the private choices of others.